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Hating Him Now

by Barbara
(Dos Palos, California USA)


Okay ... I've loved this guy for eight months and we broke up because I was "supposedly" cheating on him. Even though he was flirting with my BFF for three months straight, he called me a slut. Now he has dated three of my friends and I started cutting myself. His girlfriend, aka my ex-best friend, told him and he wants me to stop. I told him f u. It felt so good, but now I'm regretting it because I still like him. I still sleep with the stuffed puppy he gave me for Valentine's Day. I miss him soooo much ... I don't know what to do...


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Hating Him Now

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MIA
by: Stan

Looks like Barb got lost in her triangle!

Hey, Barbara!
by: Leigh

Where'd you go?? What's going on now?? Please post so I can stop worrying about you!

Not Worth It
by: Davo

If he would date your friends and vice-versa then none of them are worth having. Move on with your life and find someone worthy.

Your are better than that
by: Katie

Sounds to me like he accused you of cheating so that he would have an excuse to do so. Also sounds like your ex-best friend may have been jealous of you. She wanted what you had. No real loss...in either of them. Guys that cheat are a dime a dozen...he is not ready for a commitment. He and your ex-best friend will not be together long. Just till he's gotten what he wanted and he will move on again.
Don't hurt yourself...he has done enough of that. Rise above and move on. It might not be easy, but this will show him what he has lost. There are good guys out there who are worthy of your love. But...if you don't weed out the bad ones you will never recognize a good one when he does come along. The ones that don't work out teach us about guys, ourselves and what we really need in that special person. Right now it might feel like you can't go on, but you can. It happens to all of us. You will be a better and stronger person than before. If we don't treat ourselves with respect, surely no one else will.
Good luck, and let us know how it is going.

He's NOT worth it!
by: Leigh

I wouldn't let this jerk think for one millisecond that I would hurt myself over him ... PLEASE DON'T BE CUTTING YOURSELF!!

Show him your strength of character by accepting the situation (pretend if you have to) and move on. Let him know he hurt you, but he didn't break you.

Show him you're strong and not weak; that life goes on just fine without him. He will see you in a different light and have more respect for you.

Trust me, you don't want a guy that would treat you this way. He doesn't deserve you.

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